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Trusting God to Lead, One Step at a Time

Happy Father‘s Day!! Today we thought we’d bring you something from a good friend. Allow me to introduce you to Joel Waldman. When you imagine a strong, kind, loving man of God, that’s exactly what Joel is! We’ve only known each other for a couple of years, but our friendship has grown fast. Joel and […]

Father’s Day 2020: Couldn’t Leave Us Out, Right Guys!?

We all know how important moms are and thus, Mother’s Day always gets celebrated big, and it should! But let’s not forget about us dudes out there. Father’s Day is just around the corner, and if the next few weeks continue on how the past few months have been going, we’re gonna need some dad […]

I Don’t Help My Wife

I’ve been thinking for some time now about our roles in society. Our cultural “norms” when it comes to marriage. Specifically when it comes to help. More specifically, for us men. Why are so many household chores just assumed? What are these presumed gender roles that so many of us are taught (intentionally or unintentionally)? […]

Your Identity In Christ | 20 Scriptural Confessions To Remind You

Do you ever have days where you bow your head in defeat? Where you’re one hand away from waiving your white flag of surrender? Days where you feel like you can’t see who you were truly created to be as an Heir of the King? Me too. No one really has it all together! Keep […]

Building A Village | A Culture’s Cry For Community

Squeals from my 4-year-old at the top of the stairs as her little legs caught up with her big girl plans yelled, “Mommy I can’ttttt. I just can’t go any further alone, I need help.” As I rushed to her aide, it made me think… How many times have I tried to find strength all […]

A Real Man

I feel like there are so many guys these days who don’t understand or care what it means to be a real man. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not claiming to be the perfect guy or have it all figured out by any means, but it’s just mind-blowing how clueless and careless some guys are! […]

Rules for Men: How to Be and Raise a Strong Man of God

In today’s society, it can be challenging to raise a strong man of God. Heck, it’s challenging to simply BE a strong man of God, am I right?!? Our culture is so littered with sex, money, power, and fame, that it’s hard to separate ourselves from that. We are called to be like Christ. It […]

Pursue Your Wife – Part 2: 5 Practical Steps For Husbands

A couple of days ago I talked all about the importance of pursuing your wife. Today we’re going to look at some practical steps for husbands because you know we men need some simple, straight to the point, action item takeaways, am I right? If you missed it, read Pursue Your Wife – Part 1 […]

Pursue Your Wife – Part 1

Men, pursue your wife! We must continue pursuing our wife even after we’re married. It’s ingrained in so many of us men to chase after something and keep at it until we get it, but then what happens? What happens when the dogs at the race track catch that silly rabbit? Or your dog at […]

Becoming A Dad: One Big Tip To Fulfill Our Call As Dads

Becoming “Dad” It wasn’t long ago that I became a dad. In fact, I can still remember the nights we used to be sitting on the couch watching TV and we’d get a spontaneous urge to jump in our car and head to the nearest Taco Bell for a little fourth meal. We didn’t think […]